The whole world is a mere collection of an unaccompanied crowd though very pretentious to be helpful from outside. The irony comes into the picture while going through the title. We’re the part a world that’s socialized through many circles of connectivity like Family, Friends, Colleagues, clients and many others. But somewhere somewhat we all are alone. It’s today’s reality. The burdensome tasks of today’s life are loaded with stress. They’re destroying our ability to think anything outside the box.
Instead of respecting one real person around, we expect people in bulk even if they’re fake or simply don’t exist. The socially connected people feel proud of their circles built up at the virtual platforms. Beyond this social life, they all are nothing. Loneliness frequently knocks at such places.
A Race toward Unaccompanied Crowd
To avoid the thought of loneliness we run towards the illusionary crowd with identical conditions. It doesn’t give us happiness rather suppresses our sorrow for a while. In a search of companions for life, we end up collecting sticky social dust making our mind look dull. Social life is like a paper-flower, fascinating but scentless.
I’ve faced people easily associating and disassociating with me on social platforms. They just don’t like answering the reasons. You can put questions among them but can’t stretch it to a meaningful argument. It’s a faithless ink imprudently imprinted on the sanguine blank pages of your life. It’s very swift. If left loose, it will surprisingly waste the remaining undecided life. If you can’t break this clutch today then forget you’ll be able to do it in future.
Think for a while! Choose a few among your best buddies on such platforms. Check if any of them is your real companion. There’ll be no one! They’re like views that can be seen only if there’s light in your own life.
The brighter life is outside, though a bit tougher. Generate compassion for your life and strengthen it every day. Set a scale for compassion, check for its fall and refill it without making any delay. This will help you love yourself. You won’t be a puppet of this illusionary social life comprising of the unaccompanied crowd.
To be social in a real sense, you need not to be an open book. Be social but be wise first. Choose to be real amidst of this fake world. Be compassionate and see happy. Be such an idol people would take advice from but not lessons. Be a utilizer of life, not a wastrel.